Everybody wants to find the secret to achieve ultimate happiness. During our childhood we learn that a specific toy or a specific thing is what will make us happy. Christmases have to be full of food, gifts and people or it is not a happy Christmas. Our birthday parties are sad if nobody comes, or if we don't have a party. We are not happy if we can't please the ones we love or if we don't get that perfect career, the perfect partner, the perfect family, money, and the perfec